If we are being real with ourselves. Most of us want to be married and to be in a loving, healthy and happy relationship. Man was not meant to be alone. God created man and woman to be interdependent on one another. We were created to have a deep, intimate and meaningful relationship with God and He also meant for us to have a deep, intimate and meaningful relationship with the opposite sex. So, God created the institution of marriage.
Again, if we are being truthful, most of us have lost faith in the institution of marriage because so many of them around us are failing. Marriages are ending in divorce at a rampant pace both in and out of the church. Why is that? One simple word “PREPARATION”.
“There are no secrets to success. Success is a result of preparation, hard work and learning from failure.“ – Colin Powell. The same is true with marriage; marriage really is no big mystery. We just have not prepared ourselves, invested the time to learn about it and then put in the hard work. We invest time and energy in everything else. We spend 12 years in school preparing to be successful in life. Many of us invest 16 years in school to get a bachelor’s degree so we can have a successful job and career.
What if we invested time, energy and resources to prepare ourselves to be amazing wives? How much more successful do you think our marriages would be?
What if you took the time to study God’s word to seek out what the creator intended when he created man……woman……and the institution of marriage? Have you invested the time to understand the man and how he was created different than woman? Do you even understand how uniquely different you are as a woman? Do you know your value? God said it was not good for man to be alone and for that reason He created woman. Woman – you have purpose. Do you know what that purpose is as it relates to marriage? Do you know how to relate to that man and create an environment where he can be safe and vulnerable after going out to slay the devil every day? As a woman do you know you are made in God’s image? You are a descendant of Eve. Do you know how to bring life into everything that comes into your presence?
Marriage and being a wife is a powerful, fulfilling and meaningful asset to the world we live in. But it takes preparation. “By failing to prepare, you are planning to fail.” – Benjamin Franklin. Our marriages fail because we have failed to prepare for them. Proper planning and preparation prevents poor performance. Don’t be a part of the statistic that says more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. Wife University can help you become an amazing wife and have the successful marriage you always dreamed of. Start today……commit yourself to the work and prepare for a successful marriage.
I invite you to be part of the movement, enroll in Wife University today!
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