Everyone knows I love music and I especially love Ledisi. Well, homegirl has a new song on Youtube called “Add to Me”. This is my new favorite song and the topic of this week’s blog.

The words to the song really struck me. It speaks of a strong independent woman who is holding it down and asking the man she just met “How you going to add to me?” Some men might get offended and say the song is just another woman’s anthem. But I believe both men and women should be evaluating what they bring to the table. The things that they each bring will make them stronger as a couple. The more I listen to the song though, I am asking myself ……..what are we (single women) adding to that man who we desperately want to come into our lives and put a ring on it?

Are you bringing baggage? Drama? Anger? Distrust because of the other men in your life have hurt you? Are you bring a whole lot of debit? Or are you like Ledisi whose says – “I’ve been in a spiritual place……. so when it gets hard I don’t break!” For those who are spiritual – God said it wasn’t good for Adam to be alone. So He gave him a helpmate. Why? Because He intended for you to add to that man.

Ladies, if you need help uncovering what things you are bringing to the table that you might need to get rid of………. and/or you need to start adding something to the bag and need help finding out and cultivating what those things are……… then I am here to support you. Please sign up for a free Wife Mastery call today!

With all the love my heart can hold,

The Wife Coach