Ladies, we have to get clear on what we are going to accept into our lives. You have to be careful who gets close to you. There are wolves in sheep’s clothing. Roaming around looking to prey on you and rob you of what you deserve.
Say NO……. if he does not meet or honor your standards. It is ok to say no. You set your standards and make sure the man you let in honors your standards and beliefs. Keep your standards high….you deserve to be valued. You must value yourself before you can demand the same from him. Do not be lax in what you stand for.
Say NO……… is ok to say no to sex. Don’t let him pressure you. Once you cross that line you open up your heart. Don’t fool yourself we are not wired the same as men. It is not just sex for us. When we get up for that bed we leave a piece of ourselves with him. Sex is the most intimate acts between a man and a woman. It is a form of worship. Your spirits mingle and it is not easy to unmingle them.
Say NO…..if he doesn’t respect you as a woman. He should open your door and pay for your dinner.
Say NO…..if he doesn’t have a steady job or work history.
Say NO….if you have to wait for him to be ready to get married. Don’t even waste your time if he is not ready to be married. He is looking for a plaything.
Say NO……if he is still a boy and not a man. You need a man who is ready to be responsible. A man who is ready to bring you into his home because he is financially stable and has prepared himself to care for a woman.
Say NO ……if he is robbing you of your peace and joy.
Say NO ……if he does not have time to invest in and honor you. Does he invest his time in you? Does he honor you by keeping his word? Does he call when he says he is going to call? Is he still talking to other women?
Say NO…..if the only things he has going for him are his looks and bank account. He needs to have a very good character. Is he a man of integrity? Does he have values? Is he honest? Does he have friends that hold him accountable?
Say NO……..if he does not have his own relationship with God. If he doesn’t know God who is love ……then how can he love you?
Ladies, learn to say “NO”. Love yourself and hold out for what you deserve. You are worth it!
With all the love my heart can hold,
The Wife Coach
