Apple just released the iPhone 8 and iPhone 8 plus on September 22. Every time we turn around Apple is releasing a new better version phone. But we keep investing in new ones every time they release a new phone. The new phones are described as “improving on everything we love about iPhone with overhauled internals and a tweaked design”. These phones are not cheap. The iPhone 8 starts at $699 and goes up to $849; the iPhone 8 Plus starts at $799 and goes up to $949. Wow!

Of course, the release of the new iPhone launched a myriad of questions in my mind as The Wife Coach. How much are we as women in investing in upgrading ourselves? Are we content with being average? Being an average wife? Are we not booed up because average women are a dime a dozen? Always the bridesmaid and never the bride because I haven’t invested in upgrading myself? He is not going to put a ring on it unless you are something special.

It is time to get rid of the anger. It is time to stop settling for men you know that are not good for you. It is time to come out of depression. It is time to work on your inner beauty as much as your outer beauty. It is time to work on those self-esteem issues.

What if you already a wife? You might be a wife but are you an amazing wife? It is time to up your cooking game. Take a real interest in his interest. If he is into football, start learning about the game. Put his favorite jersey on and watch the game with him. Do you know what his needs are and deliver them before it is even expected? Do you know how to make him feel like a man?

We have to invest in ourselves. We have to always be improving and growing. You have to do more to go from average to amazing. It is time to go to the next level in your development. This only happens when you upgrade your level of thinking and do the work to make the changes in yourself. It is time to “overhaul your internals and tweak your design”. Invest in yourself and increase your value. It is time to upgrade!

As the Wife Coach, I am here to support you. I can help you prepare for marriage and get to the next level to be an amazing wife.

With all the love my heart can hold,

The Wife Coach