Trying to pinpoint why men find women attractive over other when can be hard. When I ask men what they find attractive in a woman, it often is a combination of traits and can vary from man to man. But one trait most men always mention when describing what they are attracted to is the confident woman. He is attracted to someone who is emotionally healthy. Needy women are a big turn off. If you are looking to be more attractive to the opposite sex and have them be drawn to you then confidence is a trait you will want to cultivate. Here are 5 reasons why men like confident women:
Confident women are radiant.
Confident women are attractive. They smile because they are happy. They possess a positive energy that draws people to them. She is irresistible because of her attitude. If she believes in herself, she can turn any situation into an opportunity to shine. But if she doubts herself, she’ll be lackluster in even the best of circumstances. Confidence is contagious; a self-assured woman will make those around her feel more confident about themselves, too.
Confident women are living life to the fullest.
Unafraid of living life big, these women embrace life fully and freely while pursuing their dreams. With clearly defined goals in life, these women know what they want and are actively pursuing making those goals a reality. Instead of waiting around for their dreams to magically come true, confident women are disciplined enough to focus on their goal, dedicated enough to develop a plan to achieve that goal, and aren’t afraid of putting in long hours and tireless work to make it happen.
Confident women are secure.
They know exactly who they are. They’ve learned to be comfortable in their own skin. They own their weaknesses and are willing to work on them, but also acknowledge their strengths and are proud of them. Being secure in who they are allows women to be confident not only in who they are but in their relationships. They don’t play the jealousy game, wasting time and energy over the imagined competition. These women are also not bottomless pits of neediness constantly looking for reassurance they are loved.
Confident women are approachable and engaging.
Because they know who they are and what they think, confident women aren’t afraid to look a man in the eye and smile back at them. They don’t hide behind their girlfriend when there out and avoid engaging in conversation with the opposite sex. Men want interesting and engaging conversations where different viewpoints are discussed not just agreeing with everything he says. Instead of leaving their men trying to guess what they want, confident women articulate their wants and needs in the relationship. Taking this approach allows men to relax and be in the moment, knowing a confident woman will respectfully tell him her preferences. Take note, though: this doesn’t mean bossy or overly opinionated.
Confident women are living a full life.
Instead of waiting around for their “Prince Charming” to come along so their life can really begin, confident women live a full life. With a busy social calendar and a variety of interests and hobbies, these women won’t be caught clinging to their man, begging for his attention 24/7. Confident women are out doing things, seeing people, and enjoying the life they’ve built for themselves.
If you want to get married and be an amazing wife but need help working on the traits that will make you more attractive, sign- up for your free wife mastery call on my homepage. I can help you figure out what areas you need improvement in.
The Wife Coach
